How Counselling Works for You as the Man
The words you are the man feel like winning the lottery for every man out there. Getting things done and doing them excellently. Receiving endless compliments for a job well done from collegues, friends and family or smashing the glass ceiling with that business you’ve being building. Feeling appreciated by your own close family. People calling you to give speeches about what success or maybe not but you get the picture. Then your thoughts are actually cut off and the reality you are living in sets in. If that’s your wish you actually have a horse to ride on, counselling.
Remember when you were told it is not okay for you to cry or you have to be strong and keep your problems to yourself because that’s what men do, what they didn’t also tell you is that it would come to bite you right in the back. To get you of this mess , someone thought it wise to create an environment where doing both did not result in you losing your manhood status. To get everything back on track as the captain of this ship, your head needs to be straight and counselling puts a reset button to allow you to focus on what’s truly important, the big letter Y for you.
The more unpacked you are the easier it get’s to decide what needs to get done first. Rome wasn’t built in a day and expecting to run the world is all a fantasy but if you are doing just great things around you will catch the vibe and start falling in place. In a perfect world ,worry wouldn’t exist and everything would be just great. Counseling is very much a fixer as it shows you how to bend with worry so that you don’t break and find a way around it if you can’t get rid of it. Kill stress and anxiety before they do it to you first.
The way you say things is more important than what you are saying. Counselling helps you with your way of passing information such that whoever get’s it, receives it clearly but without feeling attacked. It will almost feel like you are half way there. To keep you on pedestal , counselling equips you with much needed resources to help you stay on course. The change soon start to be visible and questions get asked whereby letting people in on your little secret becomes your choice. While counselling is not a one stop shop for all your problems it deals with those that bite hard.